Getting Hot or Cooling Down?

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It’s getting hot out there! Like really, really hot. And as vaccination rates continue to creep up in our state as well as nationally, we know that many of you are eager for a hot, sexy summer.

And the weather seems to agree. This summer has already set records here in the Pacific Northwest for extreme heat, and the temperature shows no signs of dropping. With forecasts sticking in the 80s or above for the foreseeable future, this warm weather is something we will all have to learn to work with for the time being.

The good news is that there are plenty of ways to play with temperature, and bring both sizzling, scorching heat AND icy, tingling cold into your summer play. You can use these tips from our expert staff on how to toy with temperature any time of the year, but especially as the outside temperature continues to fluctuate.

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Masturbation 101: More Than Just Pleasure

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Even putting the health benefits aside, masturbation can be just plain fun! And the more you practice, the better you become. But when we get to know ourselves particularly well, we can get into set routines. Once we know what works for us, we might find that we stop exploring new pleasures and instead return to “old faithful,” whatever that may look like for us.

The good news? We here at As You Like It have lots of experience in the wide world of masturbation, and we know that there are infinite ways to touch yourself. So if you’re feeling bored with your usual self-pleasure routine, we have some tips and tricks to shake up your sessions.

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What Place Does Pleasure Have in an Emergency?

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If you live anywhere on the west coast, chances are you are or were close to a fire or socked in with smoke. To our nervous system, this is an emergency. Being afraid or uneasy is an appropriate response to these conditions. We are evolutionarily hardwired to engage with (fight), run away from (flee), or disassociate from (freeze) threats, and fires and smoke are most definitely threats to our survival.

However, at this very moment most likely you are somewhat OK, otherwise you probably wouldn’t be reading this. While you might know that intellectually, your body could still be on high alert. How do you tell your body that despite these dangerous conditions, you are OK?

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Your Guide to Anal Adventures

Anal August: Every Body's Got a Booty

What comes to mind when you think about anal sex? For many people, the idea of anal play conjures some unpleasant reactions. Some have had negative experiences with previous attempts, and some have negative connotations about what butt stuff is like, or the kinds of people who might want it. But the truth is that anal is an option for everybody who wants to participate in it — every body’s got a booty, after all!

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Tips For Setting the Mood

Tips For Setting the Mood: In my youth, my former partner and I made a habit of playing loud music almost every time we decided to have sex. This is because each of had lots of roommates and thin walls. It probably clued them off what we were doing because our classic choice was the…

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How to Wear a Cock Ring

Cock rings are awesome toys for those who want to experience harder erections.  They restrict blood flow creating a sense of pressure or tightness that people seem to like.  They also look really sexy. But they can do damage if they aren’t used properly, so here at As You Like It, we’ve put together a…

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How to Care For Your Sex Toys

Your sex toys will last longer and be safer if you learn to care for them properly. But there are so many kinds of toys, and no two are alike. How do you know how to clean each toy? The sheer amount of information out there can be overwhelming. But don’t worry, we’re here to…

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Picking a Butt Plug – Questions to Help You Choose Well

So you want to buy a butt plug – fun! As with most sex toy shopping, you’ll find you have a bevy of options to choose from. We have put together a couple of quick questions to help you identify some choices that may be right for you. Remember, if you have any questions, you…

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7 Questions to Ask When Buying a Sex Toy

The Who, What, Where, What (Again), How, How Much, and What (One More Time)? of Picking Your Playthings Shopping for sex toys can be fun and exciting- an opportunity to explore! But it can also be overwhelming. There are a lot of choices and when you are faced with the whole array of options it can…

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Deciding on the Right Nipple Clamps


We really appreciate our customers and an overwhelming amount of you have had a plethora of questions about nipple clamps.  We hope this quick guide alleviates any reservations you have about incorporating them into your playtime. Why Clamps?

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