Polyamory is not always easy. With multiple partners often come more complex relationships to navigate. This practical guide looks at the common causes of polyamorous breakups, identifies strategies to avoid ending relationships, and provides you with the toolkit to survive a breakup.
Kathy Labriola uses real life examples and expert insight as a counselor and nurse. From how to handle jealousy to the practicalities of managing money and time with multiple partners, this book includes tips and insights from the polyamory community.
It is inevitable that some relationships will end in a breakup. This book helps you maintain friendships and minimize the impact of a breakup on the rest of your polycule and wider community. Unlike traditional breakup guides, Labriola’s book offers insight specific to the polyamory community and addresses the unique challenges that come with multiple partners.$20.00 Add to cart
Finally, a book about open marriage that grapples with the problems surrounding monogamy and fidelity in an honest, heartfelt, and non-fringe manner!
Jenny Block is your average girl next door, a suburban wife and mother for whom married life never felt quite right. While many books on this topic presuppose that the reader is ready to embrace an “alternative lifestyle,” Block operates from the assumption that most couples who are curious about or engaged in open marriages are in fact more like her — normal people who question whether monogamy is right for them; good people who love their spouses but want variation; capable parents who are not deviant just because they choose to be honest about their desires.
Open challenges our notions of what traditional marriage looks like, and presents one woman’s journey down an uncertain path that ultimately proves open marriage is a viable option for her and others.$18.00 Add to cart
Developing the connections and intimacy that everyone craves takes time and skill. In Partners in Passion, Michaels and Johnson provide readers with a fun, step-by-step guide to discovering true, loving, and romantically sexual relationships that will last for decades.
Comprehensive and inclusive, Partners in Passion is original and provocative, drawing on a variety of sources: cutting-edge science, psychology, the authors’ background in tantra, and personal experiences as teachers and as a couple.
Partners in Passion invites couples to design their relationships and to choose consciously, and is replete with how-to suggestions and exercises, including interviews with couples from diverse backgrounds, relationship styles, and orientations who are enjoying erotically vibrant partnerships.$22.00 Add to cart
Exhibitionism as a consensual erotic pleasure and a means to overcome shyness and body image issues.
This book features suggested exercises and discussions of erotic dress, talk, personas and roleplay, involving your partner, exhibitionism and the sex industry, and more.
Also inclided are interviews with Annie Sprinkle, Nina Hartley, Candye Kane, Juliet Anderson, Vanessa del Rio, Lily Burana, Shar Rednour, and others.$17.00 Add to cart
Rope bondage is not just about tying someone up; it is an opportunity for sensuality, creativity, playfulness, connection, and passion.
Bondage artist and educator Lee Harrington takes you on a journey through easy step-by-step ties and exercises for bringing you and your partner closer together through this beautiful art form.
The second book in the Shibari You Can Use series, More Shibari You Can Use picks up where the first book left off, with all new ties in a playful, down-to-earth, and engaging voice. But it’s about more than the bondage. This time you also get a chance to connect more with your partner through a variety of exercises that explore touch, dominance and submission, intimacy, and trust.
With beautifully shot images by RiggerJay, this guide offers intermediate techniques for those ready for a challenge, broken down into clear directions for new and experienced “riggers” alike.
Japanese-style rope bondage and erotic macramé may look complicated and intimidating, but you can learn the basics of this beautiful, sexy art form today!
Bondage artist and educator Lee Harrington takes you step by step through a variety of concepts and ties, giving you the tools to make aesthetically rewarding ropework.
Each tutorial is broken down into easy-to-follow photographs with detailed descriptions of each step, including how to tie all those knots. From restrictive poses that limit movement to decorative rope that accentuates the human form, Shibari You Can Use includes instruction on creating Shinju (chest harnesses), Gyaku Ebi (Asian-style hogtie), Ebi or Kuri (shrimp or ball ties), rope corsets, strap-on harnesses and crotch ropes, and much more.
Check out the second book in this series, More Shibari You Can Use.
… until it’s time to do some real ally shit.
Xhopakelxhit, a member of Ancestral Pride, (some badass, grassroots, indigenous, direct action land defenders from unceded Ahousat territory) made this zine about how to be anti-racist/anti-capitalist white settler ally to people in all kinds of struggles—indigenous and otherwise.
Featuring artwork from Gord Hill and Annie Banks, this zine offers very concrete action ideas and resources that anyone can empower themselves with in the battle for restorative justice and building allies with settlers.$4.00 Add to cart
When a companys workers are literally dying on the job, and its business model relies on preying on local businesses and even their own companies, and its CEO is the richest person in the world while its workers make minimum wage with impossible quotas…wouldnt you want to resist?
Danny Caine, owner of Raven Book Store in Lawrence, Kansas, compiled this zine about his commitment to fighting Amazon.
Zine Includes: the open letter Caine wrote to Jeff Bezos, examples of successful social media activism, links to other resources, and some sobering words about boycotting.$5.00 Add to cart
Anal sex doesn’t have to be scary or painful–you deserve to know how to make it safer, more comfortable, and more pleasurable. No butts about it… this is only book you need for your journey to anal pleasure.
So try something new with your lover. Anal Sex Basics covers everything a beginner to butt play will need, from choosing your lube to learning the best positions. But more than just technique, this guide also helps you to bring up anal sex with your partner and make your adventures as fun and safe as possible.
Sex educator Carlyle Jansen has all of the tips and techniques to ease you into butt play and anal pleasure. Learn all of the sexiest secrets to fingering, licking, and using toys. Discover the pleasure of G-spot and P-spot play. Even try some erotic fantasy and role play!
Feeling adventurous? Sex educator and best-selling writer Violet Blue guides readers through the pleasure playground of strap-on sex for heterosexual couples.
Anal sex is hitting the mainstream. Lots of hot women want to strap it on, and their male partners are often happy to oblige. With style and wit, Violet Blue explains pleasure anatomy in men, with ample attention to the prostate gland — the epicenter to male orgasm that’s been called “the male G-spot.”
Full of crafty ideas on positions, toys, harnesses, role-play scenarios, and reading your partner like a dirty book, The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Strap-On Sex offers a step-by-step guide to making sparks fly.$15.00 Add to cart
After the success of the first #NSFW Totally Naughty Coloring Book, the subject of the next book was at hand! We felt it was about damn time that people of all body shapes and sizes see themselves as the subject of desire and carnal delight.
Voila! The #NSFW Totally Curvy Coloring Book was born. With Alex Kotkin’s phenomenal artistry, we’ve created all new, scintillating, sexual scenarios ranging from solo beauty to threesomes to BDSM. Your challenge will be to see if you can actually finish coloring or if you’ll need to take a lusty break with your partner!
So, whether we’re called; fat, curvy, zaftig, plus-sized or voluptuous, we are sexy as hell and we want everyone to see it!$14.00 Add to cart
The #NSFW Totally Naughty Coloring Book features incredibly sexy imagery from artist Alex Kotkin, along with the sensual aesthetic of erotic taste-maker Elle Chase
Inside this sultry and tantalizing coloring book, you’ll find a diverse array of scenes, engaging the user in fantasy-worthy acts of carnal delight. Feel your excitement grow as you color within the lines (or don’t).
Finish off with some quiet time admiring your hard work… maybe even share it with a “friend”.$14.00 Add to cart
Color My boobs offers color-in drawings featuring an amazing variety of boobs for every taste. Showcasing the work of two talented artists, these line drawings also feature character boobs: a showgirl, pirate, cheerleader, goddess, hot teacher and much more!
The perfect party favor for Bachelorette and Bachelor parties, these books also make hilarious gag gifts, and stimulate romantic evenings.
Surprisingly sensual, this coloring book offers hours of intimate fun!
Thanks to this first-ever interactive intercourse guide, you and your lover can explore exciting new sex positions in an enjoyable, approachable and brightly colored way. Don’t worry about staying inside the lines as you learn to be creative between the sheets.
Perfect as a bachelorette, wedding shower or birthday gift, Sex Position Coloring Book is as hilariously playful as it is anatomically accurate.
With 101 ready-to-color outlines of couples in real sex positions, this is the silliest yet most informative sex book a man and a woman and a box of crayons have ever shared.$16.00 Add to cart
A great starting point for anyone curious about queer and trans life, and helpful for those already on their own journeys!
In this quick and easy guide to queer and trans identities, cartoonists Mady G and JR Zuckerberg guide you through the basics of the LGBT+ world!
Covering essential topics like sexuality, gender identity, coming out, and navigating relationships, this guide explains the spectrum of human experience through informative comics, interviews, worksheets, and imaginative examples.
Previous editions of The Loving Dominant taught more than 50,000 people the fundamentals of safe, affectionate dominance and submisison.
Now John and Libby Warren, two of the scene’s most respected educators, have updated this seminal work for a new generation of pratitioners.
Includes an all-new chapter on partner-finding, plus new information on electricity play, ethical play with multiple partners, watersports, kinky digital photography, and so much more!$17.00 Add to cart
What’s so sexy about not having sex? Everything, says Mistress Simone, when chastity is enforced by a hot dominant and backed by the right attitude and equipment.
In The Toybag Guide to Chastity Play, longtime dominant Mistress Simone explains how to keep your submissive eager to attend to your every desire, simply by holding the key to their sexual release.
Whether your will is imposed by a simple agreement, or backed by an impressive chastity device, you’ll discover, as many kinksters have, that controlling your submissive’s sexuality opens the door to other types of control as well.
Are you looking for a pocket-sized guide to the basics of using clips and clamps on your sweetie? You’ve found it!
From a simple wooden clothespin to a hand-tooled precision device of gleaming chrome, clamps offer a diabolically intense and versatile spectrum of sensation to the knowledgeable player.
Whether you’re looking to heighten the intensity of traditional sexual play, or to introduce that perfectly almost-but-not-quite intolerable agony, this book is the clamp-user’s best friend.
Are you looking for a pocket-sized guide to the basics of binding your sweetie? Look no further!
Rope is inexpensive, portable, flexible, and “one size fits all,” so why bother with expensive single-function restraints? Jay Wiseman, world-famous author of “SM 101” and “Jay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook,” will guide you through the foundational knots and positions you need.
Soon you’ll find yourself creating safe, sexy limb bondage, spreadeagles, hogties and more!
It goes by many names: bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and more.
In Jay Wiseman’s SM 101, the long-taboo subject of consensual sadomasochism is accurately, insightful presented in the context of adult human sexuality, experience and tradition for the interested non-specialist general reader.
SM 101 surveys the entire spectrum of consensual sadomasochistic practices from from bondage, to spanking, to erotic role-playing, and more. Now in an expanded second edition, SM 101 includes a new chapter on starting and running sadomaschistic organizations and events for consenting adults.
Almost a decade ago, the first Bottoming Book taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming – being a submissive, masochist, slave, “boy” or “girl”, or other BDSM recipient – is as much an art as topping.
Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Bottoming Book gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular bottom!
New sections on dominance/submission play, bridging the gap from on-line to real-time relationships, the four stages of a scene, and more.$15.00 Add to cart
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