Not Just Another Gift Guide: As You Like It’s 2025 Advice On Adult Gifting

Many retail stores and companies make gifting guides this time of year, but most of the time they just list toys that are trendy, overstocked, or sponsored. We can't promise that none of these products are trendy, and we do try to keep a good stock of them, but we can absolutely promise that none of them are sponsored! This gift guide is a great way to look through some curated options alone or together and pick out items that excite you and/or your partner(s). 

Before we begin, a caution on buying sex toys as gifts. While toys can be a thoughtful, kind, and well intentioned gift, they are also a deeply personal choice and can be quite difficult to buy for other people. We often recommend that unless the person you’re buying for has chosen something ahead of time that you consider a gift card. This isn't a judgment on how well you know whomever you're buying for; simply that it can be quite difficult to know what someone else's body will like and we don’t take returns.

 A gift card can be a great gift, especially if you turn it into a date! Take your person out to breakfast or lunch and then come shopping together. It’s a great way to spend time together and also deepen your communication by talking about the things you do or don’t like. Plus you can always count on our staff to be there to offer product knowledge and suggestions, like the ones you’re about to read!

What’s All The Buzz About? 

To start off with, let's talk about some vibrators that we love! Vibrators are some of the most common sex toys, and often the most popular. There’s lots of other vibrators that we love, like our store fave brand Je Joue, but here we'll give some good gifting options to consider. Don’t worry, you’ll see more toys that buzz in some of our following sections!

1. Temp by WeVibe. Hot (or cold) off the line from WeVibe, Temp is a fantastic vibrator and sensory tool all in one. Combining a deep rumbly motor and a unique palm shape, the real star feature of Temp is its groundbreaking inbuilt heating/cooling plate. Going from 100° to 68° in seconds, Temp is truly the evolution of temperature play. 

2. Vesper 2 by Crave. Sleek and stylish, it's no surprise that Crave is known as a top of the line engineering company. Vesper 2 is the elevated, waterproof version of their iconic vibrator necklace, the first of its kind. Vesper 2 is a wonderful gift for anyone who wants to flaunt their pleasure in style. 

3. Silent Vibe by Womanizer. A first from Womanizer, the Vibe is a silent revolution. With a truly silent motor and a unique versatile shape, the Vibe stands out in Womanizer's already outstanding lineup. Utilizing a quiet, piston-style motor, the Vibe is a great option for anyone who worries about being overheard. Whether you deal with dorms, thin walls, or light-sleeping bed mates, the Vibe means you don’t need to concern yourself with anything but keeping your own volume down. 

4. Mika Slim Wand by Nu Sensuelle. Mika isn't just designed to be sleek and approachable; it's also a powerhouse wand with a slim profile that works wonders when slid between two or more bodies. While retaining the broad contact of a wand head, Mika is a more approachable design that's great as a starter wand. Plus gentle heating adds a lovely touch on those cold winter nights. 

5. The Magic Wand Waterproof. The Classic. The Icon. The It-Girl of wands, now even more powerful and, for the first time, waterproof. Never again will you need to worry about shorting out your wand while washing it or by getting it too wet during use. Squirters rejoice! The Magic Wand Waterproof is fully IPX7, meaning you can take it in the bath, shower, hot tub, wherever! Plus at a staggering 7,000 rpms this is the most powerful Magic Wand ever made. 
   

No Ifs or Ands, Only Butts

It’s no secret that we love toys for butts here at AYLI (Anal August, you are missed) so trimming this list down was hard but we tried our best!

1. The Perfect Plug by Tantus. It’s all in the name baby! The Perfect Plug is an amazing starter plug, with a slim taper and just enough texture for delightful sensations. Because it's made of Tantus’ super durable silicone it's super easy to clean and will last forever. 

2. The Jewel Plug collection by B-Vibe. These plugs are fun, functional, and beautiful. Not to mention quite festive! They come in a range of sizes and all feature B-Vibe's signature slim neck design. These plugs are a great fit for lots of folks, and photograph beautifully. 

3. Egon by Je Joue. This plug may look simple at first glance, but it's anything but. Egon is thoughtfully engineered in every aspect. Its triangular body offers both a broad vibrating surface and the option of intense pinpoint ridges and tapers into a slim flexible stem, with a comfortable t-bar base. Underneath all that is Je Joue's legendary deep, rumbly motor, with options from a true low to a proper high. 

4. Contour XL Stainless Steel Wand by Le Wand. Time for a heavy hitter! The Contour is a beefcake of a steel wand and not for the inexperienced. But for those who are looking for maximum sensation and maximum weight, the Contour is the XL toy we’ve all been waiting for. Sensuous curves and a textured head help Contour stand out and make it a wild ride. While it doesn't have a flared base, the Contour clocks in at almost 5lbs, which makes it heavy enough to not be a risk of getting lost.  

A Breath of Fresh Air

Look, the Rose went viral for a reason. Air pulse toys are amazing. However, while we like the Rose toys we sell, they aren't our favorite air pulse toy. Our fave toys use Pleasure Air tech to create a small vacuum of air that moves around the clitoris and creates the sensation of suckling without any dangerous suction. You’ll notice all our picks in this section are by Womanizer or one of its sibling companies. That’s because they originated Pleasure Air Technology and still hold the patent, making their air pulse toys the gold standard. 

1. The Next by Womanizer. Why not start with the best? The Next is Womanizer's most advanced toy, with unprecedented levels of control and a staggering number of options. It's also sleek and so silent we often discover that our floor model has been left running for hours with no one noticing! 

2. Rose by ROMP. Okay we know we just said were the Rose wasn't our absolute favorite, but if you want one, this is the one to get. It has a raised mouth so getting a comfortable seal is much easier, and since ROMP is a sibling company to Womanizer you’re getting a toys with great engineering. Plus the ROMP Rose is two toys in one, since it can also be used as a tapper toy. 

3. The Blend by Womanizer. Powerful targeted g-spot vibration on the inside, and Womanizer's legendary Pleasure Air tech on the outside. What more do we need to say? It’s like the cooler cousin of the rabbit vibrator. 

Perfect for Penises (Stick A Dick In It) 

Were you wondering if we were forgetting the penis? Penises deserve fun too! While lots of toys can be used for stimulating a penis, these toys are designed with dicks in mind. 

1. Silicone C-Ring Trio by Je Joue. This set is not only a good value but also our go-to introductory c-ring set because of how adaptable it is. If you’ve never used a c-ring before, this set is a fantastic way to figure out what you like! Three levels of stretch, a ton of ways to mix and match for your perfect fit. This set is so adaptable, it's one we sometimes recommend as a sight-unseen gift. 

2. Ikon Spark by SVibe. SVibe has come out of the gate hot this year with a number of super innovative and popular designs, including the Ikon Spark. This toy isn't just a great stoker, it also has a super soft textured rotating cup to stimulate the head of the penis. 

3. Winni 2 by Svakom. All of the vibration with minimum squeeze, the Winni 2 is a vibrating c-ring for those who don't want a super tight ring but do want a super smart app-controlled vibrator. Pair it with Svakom's state-of-the-art app for fun features like sound sync and custom patterns.  

   
   

4. Peen Pocket Sleeve by Pitstop. You didn't think we would forget about the transmascs did you? Never! While we have a couple different strokers designed for testosterone HRT bottom growth, we’re particularly fond of the Peen Pockets. They come in both natural and circumcised as well as a bunch of skin tones so you can get a fit that is just right. Plus they are made of super soft silicone with such a nice texture. 

Get Strapped In

Dildos and harnesses go together like gasoline and combustion engines (i.e., you need one to make the other move!). Sure you can use dildos manually or attached to a machine, but most often we sell them with harnesses so why not put them together in this guide too? 

1. The Slipskin Dildos by B-Vibe. These dildos are so lifelike it can be almost unnerving. If you’ve been looking for a dildo that's as close to the real thing as possible, the Slipskin dildos are for you! These came slightly out of left field from anal toy-focused company B-Vibe, but they deserve all the hype they get! 

2. Twist Kit by Temptasia. This three-part kit is both a great deal and a wonderful kit for those just beginning to explore penetrative play. Because the kit comes with three soft, lightly textured dildos, it can meet you wherever you're at. It also means that you have options for days when you want something smaller or larger. 

3. 10 Ultra by Fuze. Designed for use in a harness, the 10 Ultra by Canadian company Fuze is in a league of its own. With a textured grinding base and spot to add a bullet vibrator, the 10 Ultra is one of the only dildos we know that is made with the harness user's pleasure in mind. 

4. The Every-Body Strap on Kit by B-Vibe. Another winner from B-Vibe, the Every-Body Strap On Kit comes with both a harness and its own 6-inch dildo, which makes it an easy one-stop shop. Unlike many other harness kits, the Every-Body comes with a very nicely made harness that has a wide back for extra control and comfort. 

5. Ultimate Thigh Harness by Kookie Leather. It ain't called the Ultimate Thigh Harness for nothing! While it’s advertised for thighs, this harness has a long adjustable buckle strap, which means you can use it on a thigh, pillow, stuffed animal, or anything else you can fit it around! Made of high quality soft leather, these harnesses are handmade in San Francisco and will last a lifetime if taken care of. 

6. Purple Plush Harness by Sportsheets. This is our go-to harness for anyone looking for a low-cost, high-quality harness. Highly adjustable, even the ‘smaller’ harness can fit up to 60” hips. The wide padded backing makes this harness much more comfortable and also gives you better control. Plus, the interchangeable rings mean it can fit nearly any dildo. 

Lets Get Kinky Baby!

Ah kink, the collector's sexuality. We love our kinksters, and love getting new and inventive toys and implements to show off. We love our kinky tools so much, in fact, that much of our kink inventory never makes it on to our website because stock always changes and we often get local, one-of-a-kind pieces. If you’re looking to build or expand your kink collection, we strongly recommend either giving us a call or coming in and letting us help you find the perfect picks. That being said, here are a few great choices.

1. Leather Martingale Collar by Kookie. Fashionable, comfortable, durable, what’s not to love about this collar? It begs to be tugged on and the clicking of the chain moving as the ring is pulled or released is so enticing. Plus, this is a much safer version of a choke chain collar. Made of durable latigo leather in San Francisco, this collar will be with you all your days. 

2. Spiked Sensory Mitt by Sportsheets. Don’t let the super soft faux fur fool you, this mitt has hidden sting! Great for both soft sensory play and more intense pain play, the Spike Sensory Mitt is an adaptable and unique addition to any collection. 
3. Leather Strap Flogger by Spartacus. A flogger that combines sting and thud, this flogger falls somewhere between a whip and a classic flogger. Made of durable latigo, this flogger starts out stiff and sharp but will soften with time. 

4. Sleek Freak by MyStim. A shockingly fun toy, the Sleek Freak from top-of-the-line German engineers MyStim is a vibrator and e-stim toy all in one neat package, with no need for an additional controller or wires. Both a fun sensory toy and a tool for toning the pelvic floor, the Sleek Freak is a unique pick.

Don't Forget The Accessories!

While we could list out all of the accessories and add-ons we love, this guide is already quite lengthy and hopefully has given you lots of fun ideas and sexy inspiration. We will take a moment to remind you of the wonder of just a couple categories, rather than specific items. 

1. Position Aids. This category mostly contains Liberator Pillows, which are some of our very favorite items in the whole store, but there are other cool items there too. Position aids can relieve pain, level up sex, and unlock a world of new positions and possibilities. 

2. Books. Books, books, books! We LOVE books! Our bookstore section is expansive, and we believe nearly any issue or question can be answered or aided with a good book. We always say that good sex starts in the mind, and books are the sex toy of the brain! Plus you don’t have to worry about whether a book is going to fit. 

3. Gift Kits and Games. It's in the name, but both gift kits and games are a wonderful choice when you haven't had a chance to talk with your giftee about what they might want. 

4. Lube. Look, it's not a glamorous gift but, boy howdy, is it an essential part of sex! Don’t get home with all your fun new toys and realize you can't use them. Get lube. It’s a great gift for a pragmatic giftee!

Wait, What About Lingerie?

You may have noticed that nowhere on this list did we mention our extensive lingerie collection. That was intentional! Despite what a lot of messaging might say, buying lingerie for someone else is incredibly challenging and has the potential to be quite disheartening, or even hurtful. We cannot recommend enough that if you want to buy lingerie for someone, please bring them into the store to try it on. All the fun of getting to pick out something for someone, none of the disappointment in it fitting incorrectly and being non-returnable. If you want to have a physical gift, consider getting a gift card! If you’re dead set on buying lingerie for someone, consider bringing a piece of their clothing to the store with you so we can try our best to estimate fits. 

Wrapping Up

Thanks for giving this guide a read, we hope you enjoyed it as much as we did making it. These are just a handful of the options we have, and new toys are being released all the time. Keep an eye on our socials and come visit us in store to take advantage of Gifts With Purchase and other fun discounts and deals this time of year! And remember, you don’t have to make these choices alone. While our staff can't pick for you, we're always here to help and offer advice and information. We look forward to seeing you! 

Happy Holidays from As You Like It!