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February Topic- What’s Race Got to Do With It?: Race, Power, and Identity in Kink and BDSM. Monthly Facilitated Discussion with Dr. B aka Dr. Bernadette Marie Calafell- Eugene - 15 Feb 2026

February Topic- What’s Race Got to Do With It?: Race, Power, and Identity in Kink and BDSM. Monthly Facilitated Discussion with Dr. B aka Dr. Bernadette Marie Calafell- Eugene - 15 Feb 2026

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As You Like It is thrilled haveing  Dr. B aka Dr. Bernadette Marie Calafell leading this monthly discussion group back in Eugene, OR for this important workshop: What’s Race Got to Do With It?: Race, Power, and Identity in Kink and BDSM

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WHERE

As You Like It (Eugene)

1655 W. 11th Ave

Eugene, OR 97402

 

WHEN

Sunday, February 15th, 12pm-1:30pm in Eugene

 

COST 

$15.00/person

What Is This Workshop About?

We are so excited to bring monthly facilitated discussions of topics in Sexuality Studies, LGBTQ Studies, Kink and BDSM, all from an intersectional perspective that is attentive to how race, class, gender, sexuality, and ability come together to shape how we experience the world. Please see this month’s topic below:

 Race, like gender, sexuality, ability, and class is a salient intersectional aspect of our everyday lived experiences and world. How do we consider the role of race within kink and BDSM? Rather than discussing race play, can we instead consider what its mean when we acknowledge how histories of colonialism, slavery, genocide, and internment inform our everyday experiences including those in our romantic and/or D/relationships? How do we ethically engage in kink and BDSM practices while being attentive to larger structures of power driven by racism and anti-Blackness? How can we communicate with intentionality, vulnerability, and reflexively in ways that honor power relations negotiated in dynamics with larger structures of power? How can we bring our whole selves to our relationships and dynamics in ways that feel safe and honest? Together we will explore these questions.

Participants will receive a suggested reading list following the dialogue

What Should Attendees Know?

• Be aware that masking is optional for attendees. The presenter will not be masked when instructing. Please contact the store if you would like to request accomodations. 

• Capacity is limited to 16 participants - Get your tickets now to ensure your space in the class!

• Please be considerate to your fellow workshop goers and keep this a fragrance-free space.

• Our event space is wheelchair accessible but unfortunately the bathroom is not. If you are in need of any accomodation, please let us know.

 

About the facilitator:

Bernadette Marie Calafell, Ph.D. is a kinky Dominant genderqueer pansexual Femme Chicana and Hip-Hop Feminist and Generation Xer. Since graduating with her doctorate in Performance and Cultural Studies she has held academic appointments at universities across the country and traveled extensively to speak about her research at universities, conferences, and symposiums nationally, internationally, and virtually.

Dr. Calafell’s award winning and nationally recognized activism, teaching, and research in Critical Sexuality Studies and Latina/o/x/e Studies include foci in LGBTQ Studies, the experiences of BIPOC folx, Chicana/o/x/e, Black, Chicana, and Hip Hop Feminisms, kink, BDSM, and sex work. She has been honored by the National Communication Association, including being named a Distinguished Scholar, a rare distinction bestowed upon scholars who have been active in the discipline of Communication Studies for more than twenty years and serve as exemplars.

This distinction is particularly significant as a working-class Chicana who started her education at the local community college and ended up with a Ph.D. Dr. Calafell has partnered with organizations, such as the Mile High Horror Film Festival and the Washington State Department of Licensing, to offer her expertise. She is also an active member of her local kink community where she finds joy in bridging theory and practice. You can follow her Patreon ChingonaKinkPhD to learn more about her work.

Questions about this Workshop?

Call or text As You Like It at (541) 606-0553 or send us an email at staff@asyoulikeitshop.com.

 

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